Finding Happiness

“Imagine a world where the goal is finding happiness.” This is the final line in a movie trailer for ‘Finding Happiness’. But is the goal of life finding happiness? If so, how do you find it? Is finding happiness the most important goal in life?

The Westminster Shorter Catechism (1648) asks a similar question: What is the chief end of man? Answer: The chief end of man is to glorify God and enjoy him forever.

One summer (around 1975 or 76) I spent a couple months in the Virginia Beach and Norfolk, VA area. Pastor John Rickers of the Oceanview CRC told me something about happiness that stuck with me my whole life: “Happiness is when happenings happen to happen happily. Unhappiness is when happenings happen to happen unhappily. But joy is found deep within the heart of the Christian.” In other words, happiness is often circumstantial, but joy is deeper. Which leads to another question: If bad things keep happening in my life, can I still be happy (or joyful)?

Finding Happiness - A man is smiling with his eyes closed.  He appears to be happy and celebrating his success.
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Blaise Pascal said: “All men seek happiness. This is without exception. Happiness is the motive of every action of every man — even of those who hang themselves.” So who does not want to be happy? We all do, but wanting something is not the same as finding it. We all strive after happiness, but how many people actually find true, lasting happiness?

Defining Happiness

If you look up the definition of happiness, you might find: “the state of being happy“. Or “happiness is used in the context of mental or emotional states, including positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy.” Happiness can also be described as feeling of contentment, well being, or satisfaction; a pleasant and contented mental state. Many of the European words for “happy” at first meant “lucky.” In Welsh the word meant “wise.”

However, a dictionary with all it’s attempts at precise definitions cannot describe happiness any better than the music of birds singing at springtime.

A Movie Called ‘Happy’

The 2012 documentary movie called ‘Happy’ explores the emotion of happiness. “The film takes us on a journey from the swamps of Louisiana to the slums of Kolkata in search of what really makes people happy.”

Movie trailer for ‘Happy’

A film critic (TeaBreak) describes the film this way: “Tom Shadyac, the director of the Nutty Professor read in a NY Times article that although the US was one of the richest countries it was nowhere near the happiest.” Shadyac noted that “materially successful people he knew were often less happy than their gardeners”. He commissioned director Roko Belic to make this movie — investigating what makes people happy. “Roko goes to Denmark, Namibia, Scotland, China, Kenya, Brazil, Japan, Bhutan and India and interviews a bunch of people.” The result is quite interesting. “They start with a guy in India living in one of the worst slums. But he’s about as happy as the average American.”

The film asks: “What are the building blocks of a life that’s just not free of illness, but one that flourishes with a deep and genuine happiness?”

Note: You can watch the ‘Happy’ movie online, and download a 71 page instructors guide for use in classroom situations.

Dr. Happiness

One of the psychologists interviewed for the film is Ed Diener, aka Dr. Happiness.

Diener said: “When I got into happiness research, it was 1981. It was not a popular field in psychology. People thought it was flaky… a professor said to me, ‘you can never measure happiness’. Now, why they thought you could measure depression, which they were all doing, but you couldn’t measure happiness, I’m not sure… And now it’s absolutely amazing how many people are interested.” There’s even a new field of science called ‘positive psychology,’ which studies happiness.

Factors That Contribute To Finding Happiness

  • Having a definite purpose and clear goals in life
  • Serving others, being generous, and showing compassion and kindness to those around you
  • A routine that includes daily physical exercise
  • Being surrounded with love by family and friends
  • Having a strong support network

Can Money Buy Happiness?

In The Pursuit of Happyness (2006), actor Will Smith portrays the story of a homeless man’s search for happiness and success. The movie is based on the true story of Chris Gardner, a single father who is struggling to provide and care for his young son. One day Gardner is offered an unpaid internship as a stockbroker. Gardner jumps at the opportunity and eventually becomes a successful stockbroker, business owner, author, and public speaker. Donald Trump says ‘The Pursuit of Happyness’ is “an inspiring story of how an incredibly determined man made it to the big-time boardroom, and stayed there. It serves as a tremendous lesson in tenacity.”

Did money make Chris Gardner happy? Or was it simply the pursuit of happiness — finding joy in the journey? The fact that Gardner had a definite purpose and clear goals is part of the happiness equation.

As the ‘Happy’ movie explains: “When money buys you out of the burdens of homelessness … it changes your happiness dramatically. But once you have basic needs met, more money doesn’t seem to buy more happiness. The difference in happiness between the person who earns $5,000 and $50,000 is (fairly) dramatic. The difference in happiness between the person who earns $50,000 and $50 million is not dramatic.”

In his book, Delivering Happiness, Tony Hsieh told the story of Zappos (the online shoe store), which he eventually sold to Amazon for $1.2 billion. Hsieh described the “history of my life in business… chasing profits and then figuring out that money alone isn’t enough to bring happiness.”

Sadly, Hsieh’s life spiraled out of control, after he retired from Zappos and experimented with drugs and alcohol. He died in a fire at the age of 46 — a day after making plans to check into a rehabilitation clinic in Hawaii.

What the Bible Says About Finding Happiness

The Bible describes happiness as a byproduct of loving God. Jesus describes happiness and blessings in the Sermon on the Mount. (Blessedness = Happiness). Psalm 37:4 says: “Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Ecclesiastes 7:14 (NIV) reminds us: “When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider this: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, no one can discover anything about their future.” Psalm 16:11 declares: “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.”

When Jesus was born, the shepherds were terrified after seeing angels, but the angels told them: “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people.” (Luke 2:10)

Summary: Finding Happiness

The goal of life is to glorify God. We (human beings) were created so that God might communicate or impart happiness to us. Search for God wholeheartedly and you will be found by Him and happiness will be thrown in as a by-product.  As we love God and our neighbor, we’ll discover blessings, happiness and joy.

Sources and Related Links

  1. Westminster Shorter Catechism – What is the chief end of man? 107 questions and answers.
  2. Delivering Happiness – The best selling book by Tony Hsieh
  3. Tony Hsieh, RIP – by Om Malik on 28-Nov-2020
  4. Tony Hsieh, Zappos Luminary Who Revolutionized the Shoe Business, Dies at 46 – by Katie Abel, writing for Yahoo Life on 27-Nov-2020
  5. The Death of Zappos’s Tony Hsieh: A Spiral of Alcohol, Drugs and Extreme Behavior – by Kirsten GrindJames R. Hagerty and Katherine Sayre – writing in the Wall Street Journal ~ 6-Dec-2020
  6. Movie trailer about Finding Happiness (2013, 2014) ~ Reviewed on 10-Dec-2020
  7. Happy Movie – Higher Education Instructors Guide – for using the Happy video documentary in the classroom (71 page pdf) from the creators of The Happy Movie
  8. What Does the Bible Say About Happiness?
  9. The Sermon on the Mount – True Happiness (Matt. 5:1-12) – on YouTube ~ 12-Dec-2020
  10. All Men Seek Happiness ~ Reviewed on 13-Dec-2020
  11. C.S. Lewis on Real Happiness and Real Christianity ~ Reviewed on 14-Dec-2020
  12. Lessons on Happiness From the School of Life ~ by Doug Vos on 18-Dec-2020

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