Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday! Congratulations! You are alive. Your heart is beating. You are still breathing and able to read or listen to this message. Perhaps today is your birthday, or the birthday of someone you love. What ever the case, I hope and pray that your next year of life is filled with blessings, joy and happiness.

I’m writing this happy birthday message to friends and family in the year 2020 — as a follow-up to my post about finding happiness. I’ve celebrated many birthdays as a child, father, and grandfather. Life goes by quickly.

Happy Birthday sign hanging up for the celebration of Maple's 2nd birthday.
A colorful ‘Happy Birthday’ sign casts a shadow on the wall. Photo by Doug Vos – dated Oct. 3, 2020. Celebrating Maple’s 2nd birthday.

Happy Birthday To You

A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are. Thank you for being that friend. I hope this is the beginning of your greatest, most wonderful year ever!

Wow! It’s hard to articulate all the things I want to say. I had a hard time choosing an appropriate music video to include with my birthday greetings – from the dozens on YouTube. It’s hard for me to pick out birthday cards too. I’m afraid the birthday greeting will be too silly, sobering, or syrupy sentimental. Sometimes it’s hard to be sincere. I want to keep it real.

Whether it’s your 1st birthday, or your 99th — I hope and pray it’s really special for you.

Happy Birthday Mystery

Here’s a mystery I’ve been pondering… The words ‘happy’ and ‘birthday’ are inextricably linked in the English language. Why is that? According to word usage analysis by Google, ‘birthday’ is the word most frequently paired with ‘happy’. Birthday and happy go together like cake and frosting. The words are nearly inseparable. These two words are married together like husband and wife. Maybe that’s another clue. Perhaps it’s because we are created for happiness.

Life Is Short

Life really is short. Psalm 90 says: “Teach us to number our days, that we may get a heart of wisdom.” Jane and I tell our friends: “It feels like we just got out of high school last year.” (Even though it was over 40 years ago.)

How did it get so late, so soon? The sands of time are sinking. The grass withers and flowers fade. Shadows grow longer. Gray hair and wrinkles slowly appear. Time flies like an arrow, but fruit flies like a banana.


My grandson Levi - on his first birthday. Excited to see the chocolate cake and the glowing candle.
My grandson Levi – on his first birthday. Excited to see the chocolate cake and the glowing candle. Photo by Doug Vos via Canon Powershot camera. Date unknown.
My grand-daughter Maple - wearing a pointy party hat on her birthday. Celebrating her 2nd birthday - in Unionville, New York.
My grand-daughter Maple – wearing a pointy party hat on her birthday. Celebrating her 2nd birthday – in Unionville, New York. Photo by Doug Vos on Oct. 3,2020
My grand-daughter Haddie. Blowing out the candle - celebrating her 3rd birthday.
My grand-daughter Haddie. Blowing out the candle – celebrating her 3rd birthday. Haddie is Greg and Charis’s second child. Photo by Doug Vos on Feb. 21, 2020
Grandma Weigler's 99th birthday celebration. There are four generations of the Weigler family here.
Grandma Weigler’s 99th birthday celebration. There are four generations of the Weigler family here. Photo by Doug Vos dated May 13, 2018
2020 covid19 style birthday celebration. Jane's two sisters are wearing face masks.
Birthday celebration – 2020 #covid19 style. Jane’s two sisters. Mary Beth (left) turned 66 years old. Judy (right) turned 68. Photo by Doug Vos on Oct. 24, 2020
My grandmother, Allie Hoekstra. Blowing out the candles at her 90th birthday party.
My grandmother, Allie Hoekstra – blowing out the candles at her 90th birthday party. The little girl in the bottom left hand corner is my daughter Charis, at age 3.
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